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People can behave so badly. Especially when the plane lands and it’s time to get off and go. I see it happen over and over, that even before the doors of the plane open, there will be some people who will aggressively jump up out of their seat and start pushing their way to the aisle to get out like there’s a bomb on it we don’t know about. These people act as if they think they’re the only ones who want to get off the plane. To me it’s so “kindergarten” but we see this scenario play out on every flight. The people who insist that they are entitled to get off the plane before everyone else in front of them remind me of infants. And I often think about yelling out loud “Hey idiot! We all want to leave too!” You ever notice immature people make you want to go there too? Thank God I have more self control that I don’t always say what I think out loud. But sometimes I think to myself here we go again. It’s like by now you would think everyone flying had just a little home training; and maybe, just maybe they knew that it’s common courtesy for “grown ups” to WAIT YOUR TURN!

See, no matter how forceful, aggressive or pushy you are; unless you physically bow guard your way out the row (and I’ve seen this happen too) you are still going to have to let the people who are in front of you go first. And sadly this is so hard for people to do. Speaks to how childish so many people are today. A lot of people are getting old but not growing up. Lol 😂 But let’s say you are one of these super obnoxious people who think that the world revolves around them. Even after you do all of that pushing and line cutting, you’re still not really going anywhere until the pilot opens the doors of the plane for everyone to exit. What always makes me laugh is the simple reality that you are still going to have to meet us all (everyone you cut in the line) at the baggage claim terminal and have to wait your turn again. 😂 Some people can be in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s and beyond and still not understand this whole concept about waiting. And I don’t care who you think you are, you cannot continue to cut people off to get ahead in life (Insert church wave).

This got me to thinking how this reoccurring theme of character, wisdom, integrity, waiting and patience keeps coming up; especially for people who are really GOING PLACES in life. If you are going somewhere in your journey (and you are) you have to learn how to be a decent person as you travel with others. You have got to learn to show regard and compassion for other people on this journey.

Of course you can ultimately do whatever you want, but toxic behavior will adversely effect your life and the quality of this journey. Sure you can go ahead and be the obnoxious, narcissistic jerk who thinks they’re the only one who wants to get off the plane. But you know that we see you carrying on like a toddler. You can go ahead and handle yourself this way all through your life, but there will be consequences that go along with being “that” person. And the good news for you is you will even find other people like you who will join you in your foolery. But the rest of the people on the flight (with good sense) won’t like you and they sure won’t help you when you need help. And trust me, no matter how independent, great and wonderful you think you are; one day you’re going to need somebody to help you on this flight called life.

The other choice you have is to be the person who takes a chill pill (that means relax. I’m not advocating the use of drugs) and realizes we are ALL trying to get to our next destination. You can choose to be “that” respectful, self-controlled, mature person who waits until it’s their turn to go. Life would be so much better if people tried this alternative. If we learned to celebrate other people getting ahead, and stopped being so upset about people going before us. Life would just be better if we could all genuinely share the same aisle without butting one another. If we all just respected the fact that there are others ahead of us and it’s ok. We need to stop pretending as if we don’t see the people ahead of us. There are friends, family, and strangers on this flight with us. Some are behind us, but the truth is some are in front of us. Be ok with that, you’re a grown up. You’ll get there too, just relax.

I can’t stress it enough that you have got to work on your emotional IQ and grow up! Especially those of us who want to truly ascend and go higher on this journey called life. It’s time we make a better effort to show respect to the people traveling with us. We need to remember that it’s impossible to be truly as blessed as we could be when we dishonor the people on this journey with us. Race, gender, title, age, status,..none of these things make you superior to anyone else on this journey so treat people better. When we die we all become dirt.

I say to those who I coach that we should all treat people the way we want to be treated. That’s the golden rule isn’t it? We all learned these basic rules back in preschool didn’t we? It seems to me that too many travelers on this flight have forgotten basic manners and courtesy and common decency. It’s not that hard is it? I guarantee you that people who behave badly aren’t going far no matter how entitled, pushy, and aggressive they behave. As your real life coach, don’t let it be said of you that you don’t know how to treat the people you fly with. No job, promotion, relationship or opportunity is worth it if you’ve got to push your way over people and step on others to get there. Wait your turn and please don’t be rude to others when you finally get to the place you’ve been traveling to.

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Coming back home from our recent trip, we were super tired and hungry so we headed straight to baggage claim to get our luggage. And while everyone quickly collected their bags (including me) I noticed my husband and 2 other people who were empty handed and looking very disappointed.

Being the type A person he is, my husband is extremely particular about his things, so I wasn’t surprised when I saw him go into a major panic mode when his bags never showed up. He anxiously rushed straight over to the person in charge and asked them to please help him figure out what happened to his luggage. After a few clicks on the airline baggage tablet, the attendant told us that my husband’s luggage was in Las Vegas. “How,..We didn’t even go to Las Vegas!??” My husband complained. I gasped out loud and said “O no! Honey, if your luggage is in Las Vegas you’re never gonna get your things back!” My words seemed to intensify his worry and his facial expression became even more serious. Then with such a child like innocence he looked at me and asked why would I say something like that? I looked back at him and said “Because what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!” 😂😂 Well it was funny to me, but my husband didn’t think so.

All jokes aside, I tried my best to reassure him that this happens all the time and I was sure that the airlines were going to straighten things out and make sure he got what belonged to him. I told him that he just had to be patient and wait. But as much as he heard what I was saying to him and as much as it made good sense, I could still tell it wasn’t changing the fact that he wanted what belonged to him without having to wait! He was anxiously waiting on a promise that his belongings were on the way.

How many times have we had to do the same in our own lives? There’s something out there that belongs to us; and we know it’s ours. Maybe it’s a promotion, a business, a relationship, a child, healing, a degree, a promise,…and we know it should be in our possession by now. But for some reason, just like my husband’s luggage, it’s held up in another state. Maybe the love of your life is in Las Vegas. Lol. Maybe your future home is somewhere out there in a queue and you’re getting tired of waiting.

As your real life coach, I’m here to tell you today it’s on the way; just BE PATIENT. The computer system is reading it’s on the way to you right now!! Consider this your reminder and what you needed to hear to keep you from becoming depressed and frustrated. What belongs to you is not lost! There was just a little mix up behind the scenes and it just hasn’t gotten to you yet. I need you to settle your spirit and just wait. Be patient and fix your face. Your belongings are being shipped directly to you. Your name is on it and even though you see other people picking up what belongs to them now; what’s yours is headed directly to you. Right now, it’s just held up in another state.

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Everyone was buckled up and ready to take off. But on this flight, I had a window seat and I actually opened the window this time to see what was going on outside. The plane was moving but it just wasn’t really going anywhere. Just stuck on the taxi strip moving back and forth, but not accelerating. Why wasn’t my plane taking off? Of course my plane was eventually going to take off, but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t getting impatient waiting.

This whole situation got me to thinking how life can be this same way. How we can appear to be moving. Wheels in motion, everything set to go, but still here we are stuck on the taxi strip. There have been a lot of great ideas, inventions and businesses I’ve had that stayed stuck on the taxi strip, never taking off. And after watching this happen over and over again, it can make you wanna scream “Why haven’t we taken this thing any further?!”

Looking back out from my window seat, it became obvious to me why my flight hadn’t taken off yet. It wasn’t because I wasn’t ready to take off. The only reason I hadn’t taken flight is because there was just one more plane in front of us (Insert tongues and praise dance)

So could that be why some of the things in my life hadn’t taken off yet? Could that be the reason why the business is still on the taxi strip? Could that be why some of your plans aren’t where you think they should be yet? There are a lot of people I coach who are frustrated and anxious, but you like them are doing fine. You’re headed in the right direction. You’re moving towards your beautiful destination and you’re doing everything like you’re supposed to up to this point. The problem is not really a problem, it’s just timing and THERE’S JUST ONE MORE PLANE IN FRONT OF YOU.

My advice for you today is simple; Be anxious for nothing. Breathe and keep doing what you’re doing. The wheels are moving. The plane is in motion. It’s just not your turn yet. But you’re definitely up next.

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No matter where you sit on a plane or how much your ticket cost, every person flying is going to have to deal with the pressure of the air! It affects you when you’re taking off and when you’re landing. Your ears will start popping and your head may feel like it’s going to explode, and it’s all downright uncomfortable when it’s happening. The good news is, it’s perfectly normal and it doesn’t last always. (Insert Baptist fit)

Pressure when you’re taking flight is just part of the process.

I’ve noticed while flying that the only people who have a particularly difficult time handling the pressure that goes with the flight are babies, people who are sick or dealing with health issues and those who are new to traveling. This got me to thinking about how many of us cry like babies about the ordinary pressure that goes along with going higher in life. Or we act like someone who doesn’t know any better. Some people act as if they don’t know that this pressure part happens to everyone on every flight.

When it comes to travel and going places in life it seems as if everyone wants to be great, but no one wants to deal with the pressure associated with elevation. If you want to go higher and I believe you do, I encourage you to examine your life and the reactions you have to normal pressures.

Are you the one on the flight of life who is constantly overacting to what everyone else is calmly handling? Sure, some reactions to circumstances are expected depending upon the individual. But you don’t want to be the person who everyone throws into the baby category or they haven’t been anywhere before category. When you get classified this way, people around you will begin to ignore you while you’re crying and moaning over normal stuff other people are figuring out. Basically, I’m telling you as your real life coach that you’re on this flight, so have some self control and stop being so dramatic. Pull yourself together and realize you’re not the first person to go through pressure and you’re not the last.

Don’t be the grown up who everyone treats like a baby on the flight. The one who we just accept that you’re gonna scream, kick and cry until you wear yourself out (and everyone around you) and hopefully fall asleep because you’re too freaking immature to realize the air pressure is normal, that it’s not going to kill you and it’s included in your ticket price.

Yep, there it is, I said it! I’m actually telling you what the airlines won’t tell you. You Paid For This Pressure! If you signed up on the flight called motherhood or fatherhood, you paid for this pressure. If you signed up for relationships with other imperfect people, you paid for the pressure. If you signed up for the flight to destination CEO or leader, don’t scream and cry and fall out over regular stuff that goes with the flight. You got on the flight and said you were going to a new destination didn’t you? Did you actually think your ticket only included a free bag, snacks and soda?

You paid for your ticket and you will get to your destination,..just remember everyone is feeling the pressure,.. and the pressure is normal.

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Traveling recently we had to take a flight to North Carolina, then wait for a flight that would take us to Los Angeles. It was a long day of travel and there were moments I had wished we settled for a shorter trip somewhere. The interesting part about both of these stops that we made was neither of them were our final destination. While trying to get to our beautiful final destination, we saw some things and experienced some moments and felt some discomfort and anxiety and pain; and none of that was what we envisioned for our trip. Nonetheless, if we wanted to get to our final stop, we had to go to North Carolina and Los Angeles first.

This got me to pondering about how often we can have such wonderful images of where we are going in our lives and how we will get there. And how everything we see for us ahead is picture perfect. But, the minute we find out that we’ve got to make some stops in some less than ideal places; we can sometimes give up on the original plan and take something that doesn’t require as much of an investment. Far too many people settle for less than what they dreamed because they don’t want to make the stops.

As you’re reading this, I hope it’s causing you to recall the different seasons of your journey and the stops you’ve taken along the way. I hope this message makes you rethink giving up on your plans and settling this year. I hope it stirs you up and ignites a fire in you that won’t let you water down your impact in 2019 because of the anxiety of making a few inconvenient stops. See, if you’re honest and you’re looking at yourself in this whole story, you’ll begin to notice that you’ve had to make a lot of stops on this flight called life; and they helped you get closer to your beautiful destination. Even in making those sometimes frustrating, long, uncomfortable stops; if you would be honest, you know they were crucial in getting you to where you are today. Even if you’re not all the way there yet, with all your stops; you’re closer to your final destination (insert hand wave and pat on your back).

I want to encourage you today as your real life coach, that even if you don’t see the whole picture of what you dreamed for your life yet; don’t give up. THIS IS JUST A STOP. I challenge you today to set some new REAListic and achievable goals and I guarantee as you chisel away at them you will begin to feel more confident and successful about this flight! Things will begin to line up with the dream and the vision you had all along. Just make sure whatever you do that you don’t miss your connecting flight. Stay the course. You’re going to get there. No matter how tired you are of traveling and waiting; I need you to understand that there are some places you are going to have to stop along the journey; but breathe because it’s just a stop, and even the stops have purpose. The stops are building character in you. The stops are sharpening you and perfecting you, so that when you make it to your final destination; you’ll be glad you didn’t stop at the stop.

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One of my favorite things to do when I’m flying on a plane is to get some sleep! When stuck on a flight for several hours, I consider it to be a great time for me to decompress, relax and catch up on some much needed rest. I have a special pillow and blanket, eye mask and headphones that help me get as comfy and cozy as possible on the plane. And if getting some sleep is my number one concern, I have learned to focus on just that, because there are other things going on while I’m sleeping.

This made me think about the fact that when I choose to focus on one thing, it actually helps me to accomplish the very thing I want to get done. So if I’m ever going to take “flight” in my life and ascend to the places I’m meant to really go, I need to learn FOCUS at another level; otherwise I will stay off track trying to do two completely different things at the same time, and end up not accomplishing anything!!! With it almost being a brand new month in 2019, I am sure I’m not the only one who already needs to refocus on what’s priority on this flight. I am honest enough to say that I need to be more clear about what’s number one in my life and hone in on it. I need to give it my undivided attention and focus because other things will always be going on while I’m doing what I set out to do. Even on any normal flight if you go to sleep, when you wake up you’ll find out that the flight crew handed out refreshments while you were sleeping.

Now you can either get mad about what people got while you were sleep, or you can celebrate the fact that you accomplished the goal you had in mind when you got on board. See, there are far too many people today who are upset and envious about what others got while they were sleeping. Envy and comparison are toxic distractions on the flight of life! Not only that, if you think like this you’re only demonstrating to yourself and everyone around you that you’re a straight up hater. Why be upset about other people getting what they stayed up for while you were sleeping? Basically, what I’m trying to say is, if you are ever going to learn to enjoy this flight you’re on called life; you have got to focus on the fact that you can’t eat and sleep at the same time. So pick a target and go at it, and refuse to be upset about what’s being handed out to other people while you’re sleeping.

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Many people never travel anywhere on a plane because they are afraid to fly. Ironically, statistics tell us that more accidents happen on the ground than in the air (insert tears and tongues).

This got me to thinking about how much more could be achieved if you (and I) stopped being afraid to fly! We settle for things on the ground level when there is a destination waiting on us that will require us to elevate our minds. If you and I are ever going to get to the places we have been dreaming about, we must take a different course. Be honest, you know you’ve been playing it safe for way too long; settling for car rides when where you’re supposed to be going requires you to get on board and take off!

Once you stop allowing the fear of flying to keep you grounded you will begin to see things you’ve never imagined. Fear has been said to be false evidence appearing real and yet too many people have allowed anxiety and fear to keep them from ascending. It’s time for you to go beyond being afraid of the things your mother and father were afraid of. Go for what seems impossible and what if, just what if you actually succeed?

At this point what do you have to lose anyway!? Go for it! As your real life coach I’m here to tell you you can do this! I’m standing at the gate rooting for you! You got this! Elevate your thinking today! No more fear of flying!

Copyright ©️ 2019 Sherry Grant

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Such a sweet little couple. Both the husband and the wife were petite and quiet, with pretty caramel skin; neatly dressed. Had to be in their late 70’s shuffling along through pre-check. Not much conversation if any at all between the two of them. If I had to guess it looked to me like they’ve been together so long they could probably read each other’s minds. The chemistry they shared was adorable. She had what almost appeared to be this devilish smirk on her face. Like she was keeping the best kept secret ever. And then I didn’t see them again. That is until we boarded our flight and the little sweet old lady was right there, sitting in my seat. Unwilling to embarrass her and make her get up out of her seat I did what every person in my shoes would do, I went on and sat down in what I assumed to be her seat and said to myself if I have to move, then I’ll just move when I’m told.

Well not long after settling into the wrong seat, I ended up getting confronted by the person whose seat I was actually in. And come to find out, everyone in my section had done the same thing. We had all just let the little old lady sit in the wrong seat and said nothing. Even her husband was in the wrong seat too. He was sitting on the row behind her.

Apparently, this sweet little quiet couple had messed up an entire two whole rows on this flight by sitting in the wrong seat. Finally, the flight attendant came over and aggressively snatched the elderly woman’s ticket which read PRIORITY SEATING; Big as day! Our entire section gasped. One man said out loud “They’re sitting in coach with first class tickets?!!!”

Immediately that made me think about how many times so many people do the same thing. You’ve been given a better seat than the one you’re in, but you sit in a place you know you don’t belong. And oh the confusion it brings to you and so many others when you have PRIORITY SEATS and don’t sit in them!

My message for my real life coach class today is take your rightful seat!

Stop settling and compromising and giving the world a watered down version of who you are! Own it! You are a first class, priority passenger on this flight called life. You are important and should be treated as such. Never let ordinary, average minded passengers make you feel like you’re not worth what your ticket says! And make sure you aren’t the one putting yourself down first and foremost! I encourage you to even write down some good stuff about yourself today and repeat it as often as you need. Call it your boarding pass! The things that you say to yourself and about yourself on this journey are important! My favorite book in the whole wide world says something to the effect “as a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” How you think about you will determine where you sit. What opportunities you take. What you consider yourself to be worthy of.

Rethink the things you’ve been thinking about yourself today and get up and sit where you belong! Stop letting your race, gender, financial status, education, or whatever it is keep you from taking this journey from your rightful seat! I’m gonna act as the flight attendant on this flight you’re on today, so consider this motivational message my way of grabbing your boarding pass and moving you up to your proper seat. PRIORITY! That’s what you are! You are a matter of great importance! I want you to say this about yourself and to yourself and to the people you hang out with until everyone believes it. Say it by way of your actions and your habits and the way you love yourself and demand that same love from others. I know you’re sitting in that seat you’re currently in, but I guarantee you there’s a better seat waiting for you. You just have to get up and take it. Make it your PRIORITY TODAY!

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Sitting next to the crapper. That’s where he was sitting. A total of 6 hours and 23 minutes, and yet he stayed happy and pleasant the entire time. I watched him. And even when I fell asleep and woke back up, he was still sitting there all pleasant and unbothered. I watched this man in amazement, sit in a seat I would have surely fussed, cried and moaned about. I watched him sit there and enjoy the ride.

Think about how much more of a quality life he normally lives than the average person if he’s able to smile through a 6 hour 23 minute plane ride next to the toilet. He happily sat right across from the same toilet shared by at least 225 passengers on the plane. Yet he never seemed to change his attitude or expression. He just kept smiling.

This man who was seated next to the crapper had a perspective and mindset that was sure to teach me something. So I started to think what could I learn from him and pass on to the amazing people I coach?

1. Remember where you find yourself on this trip is not final. This man must have centered himself to remember he was going somewhere so amazing and so beautiful, that this little inconvenience wasn’t big enough to make him lose sight of the big picture. As you travel on this journey called life and find yourself close to less than ideal circumstances, don’t lose sight of the same truth; you’re not always going to be next to the crapper.

2. It’s a matter of your perspective. Keep a positive mindset and attitude. Consider yourself lucky to be so close to the restroom. Maybe, just maybe this man had a reason to be happy next to the toilet. Maybe he had IBS or a small bladder and needed to have easy access to the facilities. Maybe he has a fascination with public restrooms. Maybe he’s a plumber and the crapper essentially paid for his amazing trip. Maybe he considered this God’s way of “smiling” on him. Basically I’m saying you need to look for something to smile about wherever you find yourself today!

3. Remember people are watching you and you have the power to be a source of inspiration to others. This man didn’t know he was encouraging me by sitting there and smiling through it all. Smiling through the heavy traffic, unavoidable sounds, smells and distractions that come with sitting where he was sitting. This man was encouraging me and showing me that it is possible to have a less than favorable situation and yet still remain positive and pleasant.

This man sitting next to the crapper smiling the entire time had helped me get through this long flight with a better attitude than I planned on having sitting in my more than comfortable seat away from the crapper. He taught me a lesson I will never forget about perspective and having a right attitude. He showed me it’s just a part of the journey. And where you sit shouldn’t make you forget that.

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Another word for moody is unstable. Up in the air when flying, the pilot will often announce “buckle up we are heading into an unstable pocket and it may get a little bumpy. ” The reason for this turbulence is the air can be more unstable at lower altitudes (insert a tongue and praise dance right here for those who got it).

It got me to thinking this morning about how moody or in other words unstable people can be when you’re simply just trying to grow and go beyond the simple and elementary ways you’ve become used to. Moody people can create pockets of bumpiness and turbulence in your day that cause you unnecessary stress and discomfort trying to reach a higher altitude. You could just be trying to have a nice day, or go to work or the store or even to take a walk, and a moody person will turn that into a hostile situation.

And for people who are going up (evolving) like you, more than ever you need stable minded people around you, not people who are one minute hot the next minute cold. You’re reading this because you’re even becoming tired of dealing with this constant stress. It’s like a yo yo of emotions, and as your real life coach, I want you to consider that it could be that some of these moody unstable people in your life are not meant to go any further with you. Either that, or you need to demand that they stop with the theatrics and prepare to go beyond this infantile unstable level they’re on. Tell them they need to go beyond picking silly fights and making everything about them. Grow beyond having things their way and understand that going higher means we will reach places we have never gone before and that’s ok. Challenge these moody people in your life today to grow up and realize that their moodiness and instability is not helpful and is becoming a draining distraction on the flight of life you’re on.

Instability is the last thing you need as you take flight. Many of you are future moguls, doctors, lawyers, CEO’s and bosses. And the heights you will go to are meant to be traveled with people who don’t add drama and stress to your life. The pilot will often say when heading into unstable territory; buckle up!

Buckling up your seat belt means prepare for instability and moodiness, and the last thing you want to do is travel this journey called life with people who you have to constantly prepare for conflict with. The last thing you want to do is travel and have to stay seated and buckled up for the entire flight because you know it’s gonna be a bumpy ride with them on board. These people who will restrict you and limit you from being able to stretch. They restrict you from being the transparent you that you want to be. Their antics keep you from being real because they’re so fragile you don’t ever want to hurt their feelings, so you stay seated. You stay buckled up. They’ll limit you from sharing with others and making connections. They have insecurities that keep them buckled so they can’t stand for you to get up and move around. They’ll limit you from being who you were born to be. They can’t let you be who you are because if you really take off, (and you will) you might leave them.

The last thing you want to do as you take flight is stay stuck in your seat belt. Take flight and move beyond the unstable. Life is calling you. It’s time to live and you can’t possibly live freely in a seatbelt. Seatbelts are meant to keep you safe in case of an emergency. They are not meant to stay on at all times.

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