i'm not mad. i'm a writer.

You will be fine. Even if you don’t straighten your life out and start doing what’s necessary to be a better person, you will still be fine. Some of you will be fine living with the same drama and dysfunctional people who you have for so long. Some of you will be fine living your life like the adult infant you are. Never taking responsibility for your stuff. Never learning from your mistakes. Never leaving the childish ways of living and thinking behind.

You’ll be fine sabotaging every relationship meant to help you become better. It might not sound like it’s fine. But it is. Sadly, dysfunctional people seem to love their dysfunction. I’m convinced some people will never change. They’re never going to appreciate a good woman. A good man. Some people will never get it through their head that their loyalties are destructive and inappropriate. The apostle Paul said when I was a child, I carried myself that way and my life reflected the life of a child. I’m paraphrasing but you get the point. He was basically saying some people love their messy, unremarkable lives and they’ll be fine living at the low level they have become so accustomed to.

Not me. Hopefully not you. Those of us who are going places are not fine being involved in toxic relationships and trying to convince idiots to grow up. You’ll be fine. The sooner you stop apologizing for having standards. At the end of the day, the only people who have a problem with you having standards are the people who can manipulate you into thinking you’re crazy for wanting better.

I encourage you to make the bold decision to leave losers to deal with the consequences of their constant immaturity and resistance to change. You’ll be fine. They will too. Everyone will be fine with whatever they accept and whatever they refuse. You’ll be fine with whatever you’re fine with.

Copyright © Sherry Grant 2020

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