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It’s a lot of hysteria associated with the spread of disease. The world is in an uproar right now because of the Coronavirus. It makes sense. Let’s be real. No one wants to contract something bad as a result of being in the company of someone else. Yet, I wonder why we don’t take the same precautions when it comes to the unhealthy attitudes, relationships and mentalities we allow to make us unwell. Some of us just go around casually and sit around toxic people who we know aren’t authentic, honest or operating from a place of integrity and then wonder why our spirit is all messed up.

The CDC says we should be careful right now about where we go and who we come into contact with. They say we should wash our hands. I say that same advice should be applied in our lives and relationships ALL THE TIME! Be careful who you go around. Be vigilant when it comes to washing your hands especially of users, manipulators and people who clearly have narcissistic personality disorder. I really encourage my real life coachable friends to get educated on people in general and the way many toxic individuals like to go around healthy people and try to wreak havoc on them. These people love to do their thing all the while trying their best to hide their abuse.

At the end of the day, an unconscious person is still an unconscious person and no matter how awake you are, they are still not going to change until they decide to work on themselves and wake up!

In the meantime, I want you to stop allowing yourself to be contaminated by unwell people. Stay away from people who don’t take the time to do anything to get better and protect yourself from disease ridden people with warped mindsets. Can the contaminated get healed? Can they change and get free from whatever disease they’ve picked up on this flight called life? Maybe. I think the greater question is: Do they even want to? That is the real question. Jesus came up to this man who was sitting around for 38 with no intention of getting better and he asked him point blank- Do you want to be well? Some of these people don’t care if they contaminate you. You can see it when it comes to the coronavirus. Some people still won’t wash their hands. They don’t care and they don’t want to change. That includes your friends and family. Make up your mind to save yourself first. Make sure you’re much more selective when it comes to the environments and relationships you put yourself in.

Be honest when dealing with a person or with people who like the way they are and they have no intention on changing. Truth is, all of us need to work on our character. All of us have areas in our mentality where we need to grow up. All of us have some disease in our character. Hopefully you’re in counseling and making the effort to progress. Hopefully you’re going to church or working out or eating better and doing the work to get well. If not, shame on you. If you let crap spread and infect others and never make the necessary precautions to get well, you’re a menace to society. Let’s stop ignoring people who flaunt around with their diseased personalities and expect everyone to accept it. We are not victims. We are here for a reason. We are determined to live. Life and the quality of life has a lot to do with each of us making wise decisions to be cautious and smart while traveling on this flight called life. Look around. Make sure you and the people you’re traveling with are part of the solution. Not the problem.

Copyright © Sherry Grant 2020

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