If the changes you’re making are bringing out the worse in you, you’re not growing. If the changes you’re making are moving you away from positive people and drawing you into deeper intimacy with people who are not transforming or even trying to evolve; you are going backwards and not forward! Time is not waiting for any of us and there is nothing worse than a stubborn old fool.
Make decisions that move you toward the best possible version of you not the worse. Choose to change your mentality from always trying and make a better effort to actually do what you need to do to change!