Sure we all have had those moments where we are in need. But there is a huge difference in needing help and being needy and draining. This is a stressful time for everyone so look for ways to encourage and inspire. Don’t be the one who’s using people and taking advantage of their kindness. Some people wonder why no one who’s going places wants anything to do with them. Well the answer is simple. You’re a user! Get yourself together. We are all trying to figure this out and the last thing you need to be doing is making excuses for underachieving. That goes for you or anyone you’re “helping.” Make sure your help is not actually hurting them. Otherwise you’re helping a user.
Recently, a very toxic person brought their leech into my space. I was at first appalled at the nerve of the user. Then I stopped and had to accept the truth for what it was. The user was only empowered by their enabler. I’m not mad at anyone. I’m just unbothered by the attention seeking, emotional immaturity of people who love to stay in the shallow end of the pool.
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