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They are driven by their ego.

Ego-driven behavior is easy to spot. They have a strong desire to prove they are better than others. That’s why everything is fueled by competition and comparisons. A need to prove they are wonderful drives their every step. They are not like you. They are trying to convince themselves of something. You are different. You are happy to see others win.

Ego-driven people may:

• Feel envy or jealousy when others succeed

• Be unable to commit to anything that doesn’t serve their interests

• Have an exaggerated view of their abilities

• Have patterns of manipulation because everything they do is about them and their needs.

Listen at the end of the day, we are all out here doing the best we can with whatever tools we have. Here are some strategies for dealing with people who have fragile/big/inflated egos:

• Don’t let them bait you into a competition

• Don’t take their self centered ways personally

• Be as positive and encouraging as possible around them

• Don’t try to correct them. Life will

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Unhappy people be trying to discourage you.
Trying to wear you out. Trying to see if you’re going to break. Hoping you will fall apart.

Keep an emotional distance from those who you know in your spirit aren’t for you. Don’t let anyone keep showing you what you already know about their heart for you. People who are at war with themselves will inevitably operate with enemy energy in your life.

Take their confusing behavior as a sign of disrespect because that is what it is. Their inconsistency is the fruit of a person who doesn’t know their worth – hoping you don’t know yours. Their disrespect doesn’t change who you are. It reveals who they are. (Insert churchy organ)

Maintain your composure and don’t look to them for validation. Choose not to feel harmed. Stand on the The Word of God and remain the light you are. You’re gonna be just fine.

Share this with someone who’s going through and remind them this too shall pass. #troubledontlastalways #thistooshallpass #dontgiveup #hanginthere #godsgotthis #fretnotthyself #dontbediscouraged #discouraged #encouragement #mondaymotivation #fyp #foryou #aword #devotional #timewithgod

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I am praying for every kind soul out here who’s about a good work and trying their best to use every ounce of wisdom to handle these evil people and stay faithful to their purpose.

I pray off the spirit of discouragement in Jesus name.

I pray you find the strength to keep standing.

I pray that God send you genuine support and resources to keep going. That you don’t lose your joy and that God give you peace, good health and perseverance through this.

I pray for your spouse and your children. That God will cover and protect them and give them supernatural power. That your family will stay united and every plot and plan of the enemy would fail.

I pray you that you prevail and recover everything the enemy has taken from you and that you will experience victory and laughter sooner than later. In the mighty name of Jesus! #prayerwarrior #prayerchangesthings #noweapon #noweaponformedagainstmeshallprosper #encouragement #dontgiveup #keeppushing #godseesyou #godknowseverything #allthingsworktogetherforgood #sherapy

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If you think you can’t – YOU’RE RIGHT ABOUT THAT TOO!

You are framing your world by the way you think.

This is just a reminder to watch your thoughts because they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.

  • Lao Tzu

Proverbs 23:7 As a man thinketh in his heart so is he.

Go after the life you want! But please guard your heart and your mind. Don’t let people dump negativity and sadness on you. Protect your mind #peacefulmindpeacefullife #peacefulmind #peacefulmindset #thoughtoftheday #guardyourmind #guardyourheart #affirmationoftheday #affirmationpositive #postivethinking #positivemindset #meditateonthis #deathandlife #powerofthetongue #watchyourmouth #watchyourthoughts #morningmotivation #sherapy #fypage

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It’s about how we handle what He’s entrusted us with.

He has blessed so many of you with multiple talents and the minute you get an opportunity you no longer put Him first. Giving God your leftovers when you have nothing else to do is awful.

Prioritizing any and everyone else when He blessed you with your ability is wild.

Gifted people must do better. It’s giving Lucifer like carrying on. Repent and stop it.

Share it with a talented person and remind them their relationship with the one who gave them their talents must be a priority. Too many talented people out here acting up. #gifted #giftedness #characterdevelopment #talented #humility #HumilityOverPride #heartofgratitude #parableofthetalents

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Try your best to avoid frustrated, angry, complaining people. They will emotionally, spiritually and psychologically pull you down.

Even if it is not intentional you will become drained around people who aren’t working on themselves.

Some people will attach themselves to you because of your light and then work hard to dim it.

Be careful out here in these streets. The scales are sometimes unbalanced!

Share this with someone who has a great future ahead of them! #warning #word #wisdom #listentothis #goodadvice #surroundyourselfwithgoodpeople #choicesmatter #discernment #keytosuccess #mondaymotivation #sherapy #wordtothewise

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What are you building your life on?

Everyone wants to have a brand, a voice, a title, but if you’re not developed in the area of your heart and your character, promotion only highlights your issues.

Share this with someone who you believe has the potential for greatness and remind them no matter how gifted you are, you must be teachable. This is a message to say some of us have been humbled by life so you don’t have to be. ❤️🙏🏽

teachablemoments #gifted #creatives #creativecommunity #leadershipdevelopment #talentedpeople #growthmindset #mentorshipmatters

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